come join an online community of your fellow painfully self-aware, existentially perfectionistic, wildly neurotic kinfolk who wanna be free to:
✨ paint their living room pink because it makes them happy and no one else has to look at it so who are you holding back for anyway?
✨ tell their good friend that they actually don't love it when they're sarcastic with them, without having a fullscale panic attack
✨ and finally give yourself permission to be a person who wants things and dislikes things and actually does things
join today to get access to:
✨ a Telegram group chat, with consistent encouragement from me, plus support & celebration from the group whenever you do it wrong
✨ monthly challenges to help you take the action you've been putting off (with prizes!)
✨ monthly 90-minute healing rituals on Zoom (first Monday of each month at 8pm eastern)
✨ 50% off all my group programs offered while you're in the club (does not apply to 1:1)
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if you've ever reshared this tweet, we need to talk.
hi there, I'm Megan (she/they) and I run the do it wrong club, a community for people who are so self-aware, they're only half joking when they say they sometimes yearn for a lobotomy.
I get it.
if one more therapist smiles at me and says, "Oh wow, you have so much insight," I will actually, literally scream.
you too?
good, you're finally in the right place, where you'll learn how to actually change things.
I won't gatekeep.
I'll tell you right now, for free, how to stop thinking about your problems from every possible angle and start actually doing something about them:
you have to do something about them.
😱 wait, don't leave! 😱
I know, I know, that's not what you wanted to hear.
I mean, if you COULD do something about it, you would have already, right??
of course.
but what if you're missing something? the secret ingredient to actual change?
you've gotta be willing to do it wrong.
and not, like, the cutesy kind of "wrong" that has a huge silver lining.
none of that "I got a perm and hated it so I shaved my head and now I look like a total badass" stuff.
you need to be willing to royally fuck up.
more like, "I tried to set a boundary but did it out of anger instead of self-love, and ended up hurting someone."
yeah, that level of "wrong."
because if you can't stand even the thought of a negative outcome...how in the world are you supposed to take ANY action?
it's literally not possible to exist without making huge, horrible mistakes.
it's not difficult. it's not rare.
it's impossible.
(it's okay if this is you right now)
when you design your life around never hurting anyone, never messing up, never being a problem, here's what you're really doing:
shaming yourself into non-existence.
and frankly?
that's unacceptable. because the world is better with you in it.
exactly as you are. messes and all.
price:
$66/month
founding member price only available for the first 45 members only
$33/month
VIP option:
✨ comes with everything above
✨ PLUS monthly 90-minute small group coaching session (first thursday of the month at 8pm eastern)
✨ only 20 spots available
$111/month
$77/month
founding price for the first 10 members only
you know what you want.
you know how to get it.
but you keep stopping at the threshold, terrified of what could be on the other side of the door.
today, I am on the other side.
welcoming you in with a warm, messy, human hug.